Creativity Doesn't Disappear. It Gets Quite.
- Kaydia Gouldbourne

- Apr 24
- 1 min read
Published April, 2026
There's a moment most parents don't notice.
Looking back, we probably remembered the feeling.
It wasn't dramatic.
There was no clear before and after.
But it's the moment a child pauses.......
and choose not to say what they really think.
Instead, they give the answer they believe is expected.
Not because they've stopped being creative-but because they've started being careful.
How it Happens
Children are naturally creative.
They create, imagine freely and approach probably without assumptions.
However over time, something shifts.
They start to notice patterns:
Which answers get praised
Which idea get corrected
When thinking differently slows things down.
And slowly, they adapt.
They learn that being right is safer than being originally. That speed matters more than depth.
That approval often comes from adapting and keeping quiet.
We praise correctness
We rush answers
We unintentionally teach them that thinking differently is wrong.
And slowly, creativity does not disappear-
It hides.
If we want to raise Future Visionaries, we must protect the part of them that doesn't fit neatly into boxes.
